Hello Friends, Suppose there are two men Tom and Kevin, they both don’t know each other but still police have arrested both of them for two crimes for the small crime police has evidence but for the other big crime which may or may not be committed by them police has no evidence for that, hence police locked both of them inside two different jail rooms where they can’t talk to each other and then police gave them an offer first police went to tom and told him that if he confessed against kevin’s crime then we will let you go free and will not file any case against you and kevin will be jailed for 3 years But if you say quiet and if Kevin confessed against you then he will be set free and you (tom) will be jailed for 3 years after saying this, that inspector leaves from tom jail room and said the same thing to Kevin Now both tom and kevin knows that police doesn’t have any evidence against them hence if they keep quiet and doesn’t say anything then both will be punished for 1 year but if both confess against each other then both will be jailed for two years while thinking about all this, they come to know that there are possibilities of 4 outcome first if they keep quiet they’ll be punish for 1 year and if both confessed against each other then they’ll be jailed for 2 years means in total 4 years but the problem is if one person doesn’t take the name of another person and if another person takes the name of first person then the person who’ll stay quiet will get 3 years punishment and the one who will ditch or who will confess will be set free and leave happily This problem is Known as PrisonerS DILEMMA Now it becomes difficult for a person to decide who he must do at such situations if they would have given chance to talk to each other to discuss or to see each other then there wouldn’t be this much problem however the opposite person is not trustworthy and your future depends on his decision you have no idea what will other person do, whether he will say your name or not hence even for you decision making becomes difficult Now think like a tom or suppose you are a tom and if you(tom) takes kevin’s name then tom would be set free and can happily live his life with his family and kevin will be jailed for 3 years but if kevin takes his name which has the high possibilities then they both will be jailed for 2 years hence tom will not be jailed for 3 years alone and similar selfish thinking will for sure arise on Kevin’s mind they both will think that cheating and taking name of another person will be the best option but this kind of thinking is not the best option because if they have such selfish thinking then both will be jailed for 2 years means in total 4 years but if they though of staying quiet or if they wouldn’t have such selfish thinking then both will be punished for 1 year means in total 2 yaers which is the best outcome compare to any option and if we think as per group then this is the best option however they will think for themselves not as per group, hence because of their selfish decision they will not only spoil group performance but they will make themselves suffer more if they would have kept quiet then they would have been punished for 1 year only but however they both will for sure think about themselves hence instead of 1 they will be punished for 2 years which is the double problem as per group as well as for them. how ever this is a fictional story, but many a times such situation also arises in real life where people just think about themself because of which they not only create lose for others but for themselves whereas people who take nice approach who always helps other, always move ahead in life staying selfish and not thinking about others this is not at all good strategy for success This is scientifically proven example, scientist stimulate similar prisoner dilemma situation in a computer as a game. so that he can find out what’s the best thing to do in such situations if continuously such situation arises one after another he stimulate or fit different strategies under computer strategies like always betraying or cheating or two times cheat one time co operate he stimulated such different kinds of strategies under computer as a result for which the best strategy which which gave best result in the game that strategy was tit for tat strategy meaning to always co operate at start suppose as per previous example, to stay quiet at first time and later means next time take the same decision by the opposite person if the opposite person stays quiet first time then even you must keep quiet and if the other person say then even you must say next time hence this is the tit for tat strategy and this strategy was the best strategy amongst the other good/bad strategies In fact 15 strategies were used inside the computer game amongst which 8 strategies were nice strategies means nice approach kind of strategies and the remaining 7 strategies were bad kind of strategies means bad people strategies who always take advantage of others kind of straregies Again this experiment proved that being good is a nice or can say a best thing which usually gives best outcome means forgiving people never be jealous of other and always be happy for others keeping such nice nature inside you is the best thing and also beneficial for yourself on the other side if you keep nature of bad people like who always take advantage of others and if you use fraud kind of strategies, then maybe you’ll get benefits for short time but for long terms results will be bad for sure being nice person is not only important for success but also for surviving and you can find or notice this in nature as well, example whenever flycatcher see a predator that flycatcher never runs or fly from there, instead flycatcher starts screaming starts giving loud signal to other flycatchers because of which for sometime that flycatcher life gets in jeopardy, but because of that signal all flycatcher become careful and they all together attack predator and saves everyone’s life, if any dolphin gets hurt then other dolphins together bring out that wounded dolphin from the water so that she can breathe similarly when vampire bat group go out in the search of food amongst them only few gets food and some don’t at this situation few who gets food means blood share their food with other bats so that in their need they can get food from other bats hence with this kind of co operation attitude or helping attitude they live long life because if they don’t do it, then as estimated 4 out of 5 bats will die early on the other side if bat become selfish and even after getting blood don’t share it with others then even they will not get help in the time of their need and hence this selfish nature takes their life easily this example shows that we need to stay in harmony and should always co operate in order to survive, otherwise its possible that our nation and humanity will become weak and can easily break down Now a days many people are developing hatred inside us because of political reason and because of their selfish genes so that it can benefit them but they are not understanding by doing this they can get benefit for short term but for long term it will for sure a big loss for us as well as for them and this will become the biggest reason for us staying behind hence always be nice not selfish helping each other attitude helps people to grow and move ahead in life and even you must have this attitude Now lets discuss this topic as per different perspective There is a famous saying “NICE GUYS FINISH LAST” meaning good people stays behind and even here in our country many starts believing it that yes its true being good or nice is not the nice thing and usually no one likes good people or girls don’t find good or nice boys attractive and others don’t find nice people cool etc, but the actual fact is all these kind of thinking is just a myth or wrong Problem of nice people is not that they are nice or good but the actual problem is Nice people are usually shy or can say have low self-esteem they usually don’t have good communication skills because of which others don’t find them attractive Whereas bad boys who have bad strategies can say usually have lot of confidence they know how to talk or how to communicate hence never think that being nice is not a nice thing instead work on your communication skill and confidence and for sure people will admire you and like you compare to bad people they will for sure respect you and also help you and also find you trustworthy , usually people trust good people not bad people Research has been conducted on more then 100 people who volunteered themselves to help others, these volunteers almost spend 100 hours helping others, means 2 hours every week in that research few questions were asked to them such as By helping others did you’ll feel good physically and mentally? for it almost everyone said yes they felt awesome relaxed and energetic then second question was asked did they feel good by helping others? for this 96 percent people said yes they felt really very good:) then third question was asked did their stress decreased by helping others? for which 77% people said yes their stress level decreased not only this by doing this, they formed deep friendships made good relationships, looking at others tough life they felt how blessed they are they felt thankful to god and felt awesome in various ways stephen pst, Who is a PH.d. says if you create a capsule under which you put all feelings which people generate after helping others by being nice and after creating such capsules if you sell it to others, then you can become a billionaire in a day but the best thing is for such feelings you don’t need to buy capsule you just need to have selfless nature you just need to be a nice person and should help others hence always stay together connected and in unity this will for sure help in long term and never get influenced by bad people and never develop hatred inside us because of bad people This knowledge i have shared from The book the selfish genes by Richard dawkin if you want to buy this book then can get it through below description link and if you want free audio book of this book then can take it from www.seeken.in/freeaudiobooks and if you never want to miss any of my new video then do subscribe and click on the bell icon and do select choose all notification option only then you will receive the notification do share this video with your friends and family so that all get benefit and also our country gets develop.. and finally thanks for watching..


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